2025/Julia Yoko-

Being a military child is like living in a world with two sets of rules. There is the normal life, with school and friends, and then there is the military life, with its own rhythms and expectations. I lived in the Philippines for 17 years of my life so for me, this is all still pretty new. I have only been part of this world for two years, since my stepfather came into my life.

One of the biggest things I have learned is that change is constant; it is inevitable. Before, things stayed pretty much the same. Now, I know that things can change quickly like a snap of a finger. My stepfather taught me things I did not know and became a way for me to be open about what life throws at me.

Sometimes, it is hard to understand the military side of things. There are terms I do not know, and rules that seem strange. I am still learning about the sacrifices that military families make. I see how much my stepfather cares and values his job and his country. It makes me proud, but it also made me realize that being a military child means sharing your parents with something bigger than just your family.

Even though it can be tough, there are good things too. I have learned to be more adaptable and resilient. I managed to keep up with the people, the new environment, and the language that people speak. I have learned to cherish friends, because I know they might not be around forever. I have also learned to appreciate the time I have with my family, because it is precious, especially now that I am moving to another country to study college.

Being a military child is a unique experience and a privilege. It is a mix of challenges and rewards. It is about learning to navigate a world that is both familiar and different. For me, it is still a journey, and I am still learning. But I am also growing stronger and more understanding because of it.